Want to Be a Better Partner in a Relationship? Here's How..
- Robert Kulubya
- Aug 5, 2019
- 2 min read
No relationship is perfect - every relationship has its ups and downs. But I can almost guarantee that it's all about perspective - your perspective and that of your partner. It is perspective that determines whether your relationship grows or dies.
What brings two people together and creates an unending connection filled with love, passion and excitement?
For so many of us, the focus is on what we are getting out of the relationship. It’s all about how our partner’s thoughts, feelings and actions impact us. But what if we decided to change the focus and put our partner's need before ours. What if we started focusing on giving to our partners rather than getting from them.
The key to establishing a deep and fulfilled relationship lies in shifting from an egocentric mindset into serving your partner’s needs. When you are a good partner, you constantly step up to look for an opportunity for connection. This is what makes the relationship intimate. When you eventually learn to put your partner’s feelings, needs and desires first, you will enhance the sense of trust and security, which ultimately brings you and your partner closer together and your level of intimacy will expand.
Instead of focusing on what your partner is or isn’t doing, start asking yourself, “What am I giving? How am I being a good partner?” By doing this, you are not negating your own needs, you are simply letting your partner know that they can trust you, and that they can feel safe and secure in their vulnerability, and that you are there for them. This will in turn strength the bond between the two of you.

Posted by: Team Robert Kulubya
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